Marvin Repinski

United Methodist Pastor, retired

For all and any of us, a verse from the Old Testament of the Bible may be received. We can, especially in this season, drop the labels and forfeit that which we think and feel separates us.

“The Lord bless you and keep you!

The Lord let his face shine upon you, and be gracious to you!

The Lord look upon you kindly and give you peace!”

(Num 6:24-26)

In his book “Great Expectations,” Charles Dickens wrote:

“Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlaying our hard hearts. I was better after I cried, than before — more sorry, more aware of my own ingratitude, more gentle.”

Part of my gratitude these days, was expressed to one of my brothers. Alan was not a biological brother, but since I lived in his parent’s home, that for me, was a foster home. I received the gift of moving from a broken home to take up residence with new “parents.” Marshall and Della were a gift; new parents in a loving family.

In these days before Christmas, we may reminisce about the gifts we have received; not in beautifully wrapped boxes, but in soft and gentle arms that held us during times of crisis. Think about it!

And the gifts of past voluntary events, actions, and kind words are not stored up or locked up just for ourselves. They are the treasure that gives civility to all of us.

And I add Becky, my spouse, who has surrounded me with kindness and books! She makes our 18 years of living in Austin a treasure. No wrapping paper is needed.

Especially at Christmas, we think not only of ourselves, but others. The author, Jack Kornfield, has wisely written: “If your compassion (the soft stuff) does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” To be read twice! That’s not selfish; it’s to note that the beginning of “softness” is wonderfully shared with others because it was given birth by that which is in us.

Christmas reminds us that a woman full of compassion, by the name of Mary, was given a child, Jesus, for there was a soft and warm place that nurtured God’s miracle.