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No visitation for chaining parents

Published 10:32am Thursday, August 18, 2011

The Dexter parents who chained their 5-year-old son to his crib were court ordered Wednesday to write letters of apology to their two sons.

Brian Miller

Brian Miller, 33, and Charity Miller, 26, are nearly one month into a year-long jail sentence on convictions of false imprisonment and malicious punishment.

The Millers appeared in Mower County District Court Wednesday afternoon to report on their progress on getting their children back. Judge Fred Wellmann ruled in June the couple will retain their parental rights, but they must continue working to reunify their family and receive counseling before the court will allow the children to return to their care.

Attorney Dan Donnelly, representing Charity, said Charity “plans to take every step that she can” to reunify her family. Donnelly said she has already written her letters of apology to the boys, ages 5 and 8.

Charity Miller

The couple has undergone parenting assessments and psychological evaluations, according to Donnelly. Assistant County Attorney Aaron Jones said the Millers have declined to take parenting classes offered in the Mower County jail.

Brian’s attorney, Tom Lenway, said Brian wants to seek couple’s counseling for cognitive skills and development.

Jones said the Millers must prove they’re working toward being better parents.

“There seems to be no remorse by the parents in relation to what they’ve done to the children,” Jones said in court. “We’re at the beginning of a child protective matter; we’re not at the end.”

Wellmann ruled the Millers are to continue having no contact with their children, other than the apology letters, unless recommended by the childrens’ therapist. Mower County Human Services, the guardian ad litem and the Cherokee Tribe would have to approve the visitations, as well.

The couple is scheduled to appear in court Oct. 19. At that time, an extension can be filed for the children to continue living in their foster home for another six months. The Mower County Attorney’s Office can also file for another termination of parental rights on different grounds in October.


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  • soapbox

    Why play these games? This trashy couple should never get to see them kids ever agin! just tell them they don’t get another chance to scare them kids, it;s over!…….Whats wrong with our country? What kind of person could even think of letting them dirtballs have thier kids back?

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  • ausblm

    Soooo…Charity plans to take every step that she can to reunify her family…yet declines to take a parenting class at the jail?!?!?! HMMMM…that doesn’t sound like taking every step to me.
    These two are WORTHLESS WASTE OF SPACE HUMAN BEINGS!!!!!!
    The Assistant county attorny says there seems to be no remorse for what they’ve done, how could ANY judge even think of giving them these children with these things being said…U.N.R.E.A.L.

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  • Pigtown

    Letter of apology to the kids? Yeah, that should do it. They’re clearly on the way to becoming exemplary parents. Give them the kids back, Wellmann. Good thinking.

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  • Brenda

    Wow!!!! They’re having to write letters of apology!!! That’ll teach’em!!!!!! These people have no remorse for what they’ve done to their children!!!!!! These are NOT parents!!!! They’re not fit to be called parents! These children deserve so much better then these STUID people. Reunification of the family!!!??? What family??? Try a house of torture….that’s what these boys had…not parents!! Not a family!!!!

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  • scrawnie

    Our court system states “in the best interests of the child(ren)”. What was granted for these ‘parents’ clearly is NOT in the best interests of the children since neither child wants to go back to these two idiots!! And these kids are old enough to tell the judge their wishes and the judge/law does the complete opposite. In the best interests of the kids, ya right.

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  • scrawnie

    Its wonderful that these kids do/will feel like the legal system doesn’t care what they want! SAD!

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  • walkthewalk

    It is a proven fact that most adults that do crime have been abused as children–the cycle undoubtly repeats it’s ugly head. These two boys have a chance to break out from this abuse cycle and with help from professionals learn how to become stable citizens and perhaps someday parents themselves. This can only happen with them away from these two people that do not want to educate themselves and reach within their souls to get to their abusive behavior with these two young boys. Perhaps it is too late but I have some hope that the courts will keep them safe and in a better home setting then what they were growing up in previously. God bless the children.

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